The Hidden Truth Behind Midlife Crisis Affairs
You’ve seen it happen. The transformation seems to come out of nowhere, like an alien has replaced the reliable, loving partner you’ve known for decades.
You’ve seen it happen. The transformation seems to come out of nowhere, like an alien has replaced the reliable, loving partner you’ve known for decades.
I recently created this as a reel for Instagram and it got a huge amount of interaction…. (The reel represents all the incredible women who seek to honour their vows, embody the true meaning of love which seeks to accept rather than judge, understand rather than condemn, and stand beside their husband when he emerges from the affair fog and realises the healing that needs to take place.)
You’ve built a life together over decades. The shared dreams, the family memories, the life you’ve carefully crafted — and then betrayal crashes through it all like a wrecking ball. Know he needs therapy. But he won’t go. And there you sit, stuck between saving your marriage and healing your heart, feeling like you’re trying to bail out a sinking ship with a teaspoon.
We like to think it could never happen to us. We’re different. We’re in love. We chose well. We have a good marriage. I thought that too.